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Edging

Increase pleasure by approaching orgasm and then easing away

The Joy of Withholding

Edging is approaching the promised land, getting close to your destination, and then extending your trip! Repeatedly nearing orgasm—but preventing it before it happens—builds longer, more intense orgasms for 65.5% of women. Usually just one of the three variations works well for each woman. See which works best for you or your partner.

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Edging Variations

Variation 1: Pausing, Going to Zero, and Rebuilding

With the pausing method, you completely stop all touch just before orgasm. When the feeling of impending orgasm is completely gone, you start over again from the beginning. This approach can...

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35% of women who love edging use pause edging

With the pausing method, you completely stop all touch just before orgasm. When the feeling of impending orgasm is completely gone, you start over again from the beginning. This approach can take the longest but women who swear by it say that it leads to the most intense pleasure.

The break can be anywhere from a minute to a few hours, depending on what works best for you. When you start again, begin with initial warm-up, build-up and approach before stopping at the last moment again.

35% of women who love edging use pause edging
Almost Almost Almost Stronger Orgasm Repetitions of Warmup, Build, Approach, Halt

Stimulation

Move through all of the stages from warm-up motions, through buildup and approach, all the way up to the point just before orgasm.

Complete Stop. Cool Down

Hands off without any stimulation at all. Allow enough time so the buildup completely subsides. Nipple stimulation, caressing and kissing are great here, but hands off downstairs.

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Amber shows you her style of Pause Edging

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Variation 2: Distracting the Orgasm Away

With the distraction method, you create sudden or intense sensations away from the clit just before climax. This shifts your focus away from the clit and prevents the orgasm. Some women...

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Zoey shows you her style of Distraction Edging

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Variation 3: Continuous Edging

With continuous edging, you walk right up to the orgasm and then, just before it happens, shift to touches away from the clit that are still pleasurable, but aren’t focused enough to actually bring...

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Sidney shows you her style of Continuous Edging

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Helpful Guidelines

  • Lighter is better. 70% of women who like edging say it helps to reduce the pressure when climax is near.
  • If you come easily/quickly, try the pause or distraction variations.
  • If you tend to lose orgasms completely, try the continuous variation.

Most Common Challenges

  • Passing the point of no return. If you get too close, there’s no stopping it. Try edging earlier.
  • Giving in. Edging can be difficult because it’s so tempting to push into the orgasm when it’s near. Patience is hard; you’re not alone!
  • If you can’t rebuild to orgasm, know that edging isn’t for everyone. Some women just find it frustrating. Now you know it’s not for you. On to the next technique!