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You'll explore the latest science about what feels good and why - through fun, honest videos. Get more understanding, more pleasure and tools for even happier relationships.

Our research combines the wisdom of thousands of women, ages 18-95, revealing techniques that hadn't even been named yet.

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How It Works

You'll explore the latest science about what feels good and why - through fun, honest videos. Get more understanding, more pleasure and tools for even happier relationships.

Read more about the research

Our research combines the wisdom of thousands of women, ages 18-95, revealing techniques that hadn't even been named yet.

Debby Herbenick, PhD, Professor at Indiana University and The Kinsey Institute

Brand New Research

In partnership with researchers at Indiana University and The Kinsey Institute, we’ve conducted thousands of in-depth interviews and the first-ever large-scale, peer-reviewed and published studies about techniques for women’s pleasure.

What we found was that there are shared insights and techniques that enhance pleasure for the vast majority of women. We made OMGyes to get these insights to the world in a way that’s personal and practical.

Debby Herbenick, PhD, Professor at Indiana University and The Kinsey Institute

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OMGyes is not a subscription. For each series of content, you pay once and keep access forever like having a book on your shelf. And your contribution goes on to fund future research.

The Science Of Pleasure

OMGyes is, indeed, great. Nobody else is working on the science of pleasure... The design is state-of-the-art and the infographics are smart and easy to read.

No Blushing, No Shame

The site smashes taboos surrounding female sexuality and treats the female orgasm with an unprecedented seriousness: tackling the complexities surrounding the ways in which women experience pleasure with honesty and no shame.
Nothing less than the next wave of an unfinished sexual revolution

The more you know, the better it gets.

Get the distilled wisdom of over 20,000 women by watching honest, comfortable videos that make you smile.

Season 1

Season 2

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Season 1

62 short videos, 11 touchable videos.

You’ll explore twelve major insights (listed below) from the first-ever research into the specifics of what feels good and why.

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Season 2

82 short videos, 22 interactive graphics

Building on the concepts from Season 1, you’ll explore newly uncovered ways to increase pleasure during penetration.

From two years of additional research distilling the wisdom of over 19,000 women.

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Topics in Season 1:

Layering
Indirect pleasure through surrounding skin
indirect touch
Hinting
Passing by and only occasionally indulging
sometimes indulging
Signaling
Styles of giving and reading feedback
styles of feedback
Framing
How pleasure is mostly between the ears
ways of focusing
Orbiting
The million ways of circling the clit
circular patterns
Multiples
Overcoming sensitivity to build multiple orgasms
seconds and thirds
Staging
Ways sensitivity changes over time
evolving over time
Surprise
Defying expectation to enhance pleasure
unexpected pleasure
Edging
Bigger orgasm by approaching & denying
withholding orgasm
Rhythm
A well-timed, almost musical loop of motion
patterned pleasure
Consistency
Keeping everything exactly the same
sweet repetition
Accenting
Extra attention to part of a motion
pulse of pleasure

Topics in Season 2:

Shallowing
The joys of touch just inside the opening
The joys of touch just inside the opening
Pairing
Giving the clitoris extra pleasure during penetration
Giving the clitoris extra pleasure during penetration
Angling
Adjusting the angle of penetration for more pleasure
Adjusting the angle of penetration for more pleasure
Staying In
Sustaining contact and pressure during penetration
Sustaining contact and pressure during penetration
Broadening
Wider pressure and grinding to activate the entire clitoris
Wider pressure and grinding to activate the entire clitoris
G-Regions
Finding new kinds of pleasure behind the walls
Finding new kinds of pleasure behind the walls
Flexing
Activating the body’s muscles to heighten pleasure
Activating the body’s muscles to heighten pleasure
Booty
Heightened pleasure & bigger orgasms through anal touch
Heightened pleasure & bigger orgasms through anal touch
Breathing
Using your lungs as a sex organ
Using your lungs as a sex organ
Renewing
Making touch newly pleasurable, over and over
Making touch newly pleasurable, over and over
Adding
More pleasure through stretch & fullness
More pleasure through stretch & fullness
Squirting
Practical insights about a misunderstood topic
Practical insights about a misunderstood topic
Deep-end
Whole-body pleasure from the far reaches of the vagina
Whole-body pleasure from the far reaches of the vagina
Layering
Indirect pleasure through surrounding skin
Hinting
Passing by and only occasionally indulging
Signaling
Styles of giving and reading feedback
Framing
How pleasure is mostly between the ears
Orbiting
The million ways of circling the clit
Multiples
Overcoming sensitivity to build multiple orgasms
Staging
Ways sensitivity changes over time
Surprise
Defying expectation to enhance pleasure
Edging
Bigger orgasm by approaching & denying
Rhythm
A well-timed, almost musical loop of motion
Consistency
Keeping everything exactly the same
Accenting
Extra attention to part of a motion
Shallowing
The joys of touch just inside the opening
Pairing
Giving the clitoris extra pleasure during penetration
Angling
Adjusting the angle of penetration for more pleasure
Staying In
Sustaining contact and pressure during penetration
Broadening
Wider pressure and grinding to activate the entire clitoris
G-Regions
Finding new kinds of pleasure behind the walls
Flexing
Activating the body’s muscles to heighten pleasure
Booty
Heightened pleasure & bigger orgasms through anal touch
Breathing
Using your lungs as a sex organ
Renewing
Making touch newly pleasurable, over and over
Adding
More pleasure through stretch & fullness
Squirting
Practical insights about a misunderstood topic
Deep-end
Whole-body pleasure from the far reaches of the vagina

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For All Adults

It’s for anyone who cares about women’s pleasure and wants to explore the latest science. Women, men and couples.

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OMGyes is a website, not an app. So it all works right in the browser of your smartphone, tablet, laptop or desktop.

Frequently Asked Questions

Any purchase on OMGyes is a one-time charge. There are no subscriptions, so no need to ever cancel anything. You make a one-time payment for a collection of OMGyes content and it’s yours forever to access as much as you want. And your contribution helps fund the next waves of research on sexual pleasure.

Thanks all people’s support so far, we’re now researching pleasure with toys, men’s pleasure, pleasure in menopause, trans pleasure and lots more in the pipeline.

Yes. OMGyes is for anybody who cares about women’s sexual pleasure and wants to explore it even more. Both women and men use the site. Some use it alone, some use it together as a couple.

Some people have binged all of OMGyes in a weekend. But we recommend going through one topic per week, so you can really have time to explore and apply it all.

It’s great as together-time for a couple or for a group of friends - like watching a tv-show together and chatting about it after.

We listened to lots of OMGyes users to find the sweet spot of being in-depth but not too long--something fun you look forward to, not a task. It turns out shorter videos are better than long ones. So we try to keep each video to under 4 minutes.

Gosh, we really hope nobody died.

We’re not claiming to be experts — we believe that the collective wisdom of thousands is stronger than any one person's opinion.

We are, however, the first and only ones conducting large-scale, nationally representative scientific research about the specifics of touch and sexual pleasure. The techniques on the site come directly from this research with over 20,000 women.

Great question.

The taboo that makes people uncomfortable seeing women’s anatomy is the same one that has kept women’s pleasure so secret for so long. That’s the taboo we’re trying to get rid of. We think people are ready for an honest, clear-headed look at the details that make all the difference.

Subtle variations in pressure or angle or consistency actually feel really different. What one woman calls a ‘circular motion on the clit’ could actually hurt for another woman who also likes a ‘circular motion on the clit.’ You really do have to get up close and actually see what the variations are — and why they feel so different.

We also publish our research findings in academic journals, too. But research papers are pretty dry and this site is our way of making the findings practical, relatable and fun to explore for busy people. Our first batch of research was published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, and we have more scientific publications in the works.

It would be wonderful if public institutions would give grants for research about pleasure! Unfortunately they never have and won't. So we have to charge something to pay for the ongoing research, production, and the salaries of an amazing team who produces and maintains OMGyes. Each set of content is a one-time payment, similar to buying a book. You pay once for a book but you can read it anytime forever. And some of the money goes toward that author making more books. All of you who find OMGyes valuable and important are funding this ongoing research and production and we thank you!

OMGyes isn’t about the basics. Most of the techniques and ways to intensify pleasure that we’re presenting had literally never been researched before. You’ll explore new things to try, new perspectives on things you do already, and get more tools for your toolbox. In a study of 887 users of OMGyes, 95% said they experienced new kinds of pleasure that felt new to them, physically. That group included lots of people who consider themselves sex jedis. The truth is, we all have more to discover.

Lots! One user wrote in and said that he learned all the things that worked best in bed from a really open partner who turned the lights on, showed him in detail what worked for her, and let him practice until it was really clear. OMGyes is kind of like that. So you get a practical, specific understanding of the wide range of what feels good and why.

Firstly, women write in to us all the time saying they've never had an orgasm and asking if something's wrong with them. We always make sure to first tell them that our research shows only 18% of women have orgasms from penetration. So if they haven't had an orgasm from penetration, that's not only normal, they're in the majority.

Second, thinking too much about an orgasm as a goal can actually get in the way of pleasure, and even prevent an orgasm from happening!

Third, lots of women don't and won't have what's conventionally described as an orgasm and still have really wonderful and fulfilling sex lives. The biggest hurdle they talk about is realizing they don't need to live up to someone else's concept of what their pleasure should be.

The focus of OMGyes content is pleasure - not orgasms. Here's a great article about using OMGyes from the perspective of someone who doesn't have orgasms. And here's an article about someone who used OMGyes as part of a journey to her first orgasm.

The techniques and concepts work whether the person doing the touching uses fingers, a penis or a toy. The techniques are shown in videos using toys and fingers.

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