Frequently Asked Questions

It’s a website - so there’s no software to download - it all happens in the browser of your laptop, desktop, tablet or phone. The videos run on most any device - and the touchable video works on most all desktops and laptops using your mouse or trackpad. Because the touchable video is so graphically intense (ha) it only runs on more recent, more powerful tablets and phones. Check to see if your device is compatible here.

Yes. OMGYes is for anybody who cares about women’s sexual pleasure and wants to explore it even more. Around half of our users are women and half men. Some people use it alone, some use it together with their partners.

OMGYes isn’t about the basics. It’s not a how-to guide. Most of the techniques and ways to intensify pleasure are things that had literally never been researched before. You’ll explore new things to try, new perspectives on things you already do, and just get more tools for your toolbox.

Any purchase on OMGYes is a one-time charge. You buy it once and it’s yours. Like buying a book. There are no subscriptions, therefore no need to ever cancel anything.

We did a lot of testing with users to find the sweet spot of being in-depth but not too long. It turns out that shorter videos are better than really long ones. So our editors make sure the videos get right to the point - we try to get each of the 50 videos to under 4 minutes. You can go through all of OMGYes in a weekend - and the time passes quickly because the women are so funny. It’s like hanging out with really open friends.

It would be wonderful if public institutions would give grants for research about pleasure! Unfortunately they never have and won't. So we have to charge something to pay for the ongoing research, production and the salaries of an amazing team who produces and maintains OMGyes. Each season is a one-time payment, similar to buying a book. We all understand books aren't free because it takes money to make them, even science books. All of you who find OMGyes valuable and important are funding this ongoing research and production with your small, one-time payments and we thank you!

Lots! One user wrote in and said that he learned all the things that worked best in bed from a really open partner who turned the lights on, showed him in detail what worked for her, and let him practice until it was really clear. OMGYes is like being in a room with lots of women who are really open like that, and then being handed high-tech simulations to try it all and experience lots of different styles of guiding and feedback.

Each of the women on the site collaborates with our engineers to create a coded model of her preferences, reactions and sensitivities. And she records lots and lots of audio feedback so, as you touch her simulation, you get the kinds of feedback she’d give.

The simulations are a way of modeling different ways women actually give feedback to guide their partners to what feels best for them. This turns out to be the most important 'technique' when it comes to women's pleasure - guiding, suggesting, experimenting, listening and responding in real-time. (It's also a part of sex completely missing from sex scenes in TV/movies/porn!) So, after you explore each topic and one of the women shows her particular variation, you can try it yourself on your touchscreen or computer and actually experience her style of feedback on how you can fine-tune what you're doing to make it feel even better.

When you buy OMGYes, we’ll send you an email when there’s new content. But if you ever don’t want to receive emails from us, we make it easy to opt out - we hate spam and promise never to do it.

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We have gay, trans and non-binary people at all levels in our company and have given a great deal of thought to how we use pronouns and present information on the site. The research we did for season one centered on vulva touch and was conducted with anyone who identified as a woman.

Our plan is to integrate more and more of the experiences of all kinds of people as we develop more content. We also have plans to conduct the first-ever research into the specifics of pleasure for people who have transitioned!

Gosh, we really hope nobody died.

We’re not claiming to be experts - we believe that the collective wisdom of thousands is stronger than any one person's opinion.

We are, however, the first and only ones conducting large-scale, nationally representative scientific research about the specifics of touch and sexual pleasure.

Great question.

The taboo that makes people uncomfortable seeing women’s anatomy is the same one that has kept women’s pleasure so secret for so long. That’s the taboo we’re trying to get rid of. We think people are ready for an honest, clear-headed look at the details that make all the difference.

Subtle variations in pressure or angle or consistency actually feel really different. What one woman calls a ‘circular motion on the clit’ could actually hurt for another woman who also likes a ‘circular motion on the clit.’ You really do have to get up close and actually see what the variations are - and why they feel so different.

Thanks. We think it’s cool, too. There is som`ething you could do: help us spread the cause. Tell friends about OMGYES - post it, tweet it, email a link. Or, if you're a writer, write an honest, personal review of your experience with the site, either as a post on our facebook wall or as a blog post. Speaking openly about this topic is what helps spread the cause!

We are engineers, educators, researchers and filmmakers, who, frankly, wanted this information for ourselves. We couldn’t find it and decided it needed to exist. We left our other jobs and have had a wild ride ever since. Read more about us and why we made it here.


But people are each different in most ways but there are still huge fields of study and research about all the other ways we work. We think that “everyone’s different” has been a way people have avoided a taboo topic.

One of the most interesting findings from our research study is that there are actually shared techniques and variations across the majority of women. That’s why we’re presenting the most prevalent insights and techniques from our research. And rather than being like recipes - the techniques are more like ingredients that you can combine in thousands of different ways as you make them your own.

The specifics of women’s pleasure have gone un-researched this long because the big institutions that fund research play it safe. Pharma studies disorders, Public Health studies general behaviors, Medicine and Biology study what happens inside the body during orgasm. Those are all considered safe to research because they’re far enough away from what’s still considered ‘indecent’ in our culture: the specific, actual ways of touching that are pleasurable for women.

Hey, don’t get us wrong, we’re BIG fans of penetration. And many of the techniques touch upon penetration. But our research showed that there was a huge playground of sexual pleasure to be explored beyond penetration. In fact, 73% of women in our study said that clitoral stimulation DURING penetration leads to more orgasms and better orgasms. And since the details of clitoral stimulation are the topic that hadn’t been researched yet, that’s what the first season of OMGYes is designed to explore. Additional seasons in the future will go into lots of other aspects of sexual pleasure.

No. It’s not live. To develop the technology, we filmed the ways each woman moves and stitched all the images together in a nifty new way we thought up. And each woman worked with our engineers to program in her sensitivities and patterns of reaction so that, as you touch, you get audio feedback so you can fine-tune the technique.

The women on the site are not actresses. They were inspired to share their personal experiences and wanted to set the record straight about the realities of women’s pleasure. They come from all over the USA - and have diverse careers, families and lifestyles.

When you buy Season One, you get these twelve techniques - and any content we add to those techniques in the future. But then, when we release Season Two, that will be a separate series that you’d have to purchase separately.

We’re going to keep doing more and more research and releasing more seasons of insights and techniques. We’ve just skimmed the surface - there’s SO MUCH MORE to discover.

The first season of 12 episodes is mostly about external stimulation. These techniques can be complicated and had literally never been researched before. But there are also episodes about other prevalent a-ha moments that really changed things for women we spoke to. One episode is all about giving and reading feedback, and another about how much thinking can get in the way (or enhance) pleasure. In the future, we’re also planning to cover penetration techniques and angles, how pleasure changes after childbirth, and how pleasure changes after menopause.

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"OMG Yes" is a commonly used acronym for "Oh My God Yes!" in English. It's what someone says to exclaim pleasure and delight in and out of the bedroom.

Yes! Every video and simulation is hand-captioned.

Yes! You can switch the language you view in with the language options in the bottom left corner of every page. We currently have the following languages available: English, Deutsch, Français, Español, Español (LA), Italiano, Português, Nederlands, 日本語, 한국어, 简体中文, and 繁體中文. If your language isn't displayed there yet, check back for more translations soon!

Whenever the text is presented as the voice of OMGYes, we use the term vulva when referring to external female genitalia. We made the decision, however, not to ask participants (women who appear in videos and whose responses appear in quoted text) to alter their everyday language. We wanted the interviews to be improvised by women talking frankly and openly, as they would to friends. We experimented with correcting participants, but the interviews consequently came across as staged and we felt intrusive. So we allowed the participants to stick with the language that came naturally.

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